Asexuality Top Ten
Well, not only is this blatantly untrue since I'm never short for volunteers, but furthermore, I'm a nice, kind, interesting girl (not to mention reasonably attractive, for the record), and I like to think that if I wanted a boyfriend, I could easily get one. However, I don't believe in "looking" for a boyfriend, since that requires expectation of a certain type of relationship before you even know the person you're gonna meet. I prefer to not "look" for any certain type of relationship and just let whatever is natural develop . . . and while a host of unexpected results have occurred with people I've met, that particular interest/attraction/relationship has never developed on my end. I believe that when people make this suggestion for why I don't get laid, sometimes they're just trying to encourage my reactance . . . in other words, to reply, "I can too get a man! Watch me!" and proceed to invite them over. To sum up, I could *very easily* "get" a man if I wanted one; it is just that I don't believe men are things to be gotten.
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