GatrDawn: sexy gville guy w a pic may we chat?

SwankiVY2: I would have wanted to chat if that sentence started with the "may"...

SwankiVY2: but since it was preceded by "sexy gville guy w a pic," said as if I was expected to care, then no thanks.

GatrDawn: ok sunshine lighten up=)

SwankiVY2: I'm very light, if approached nicely.

GatrDawn: i thought i did

SwankiVY2: I don't like the whole "hey lookit me, I'm a sexy guy. You're expected to care now, why don't ya drool over me?"

SwankiVY2: "Then we can hook up and stuff."

SwankiVY2: I'm not into that scene, sorry...

GatrDawn: oooooooooooook

SwankiVY2: Seriously.

GatrDawn: oooooooook

SwankiVY2: I'm very nice. But I'm not into "I'm a sexy guy with a picture, let's chat."

GatrDawn: what the hell is the big deal

GatrDawn: this is the puter if i was on the street i wouldnt say that but here u have got to sell

SwankiVY2: What exactly are you trying to sell me?

GatrDawn: me

SwankiVY2: I'm not into people's looks in person either.

SwankiVY2: I'm not interested in buying...I'm single but I am very far from looking.

GatrDawn: god help me

SwankiVY2: At least, for men, "that way."

SwankiVY2: This ain't a meat market.

SwankiVY2: Did you read my profile or what?

GatrDawn: ook sorry i bothered UU

SwankiVY2: It's not bothersome to talk to people, I just didn't like the way you approached me.

GatrDawn: well know i dont like how anal u are so

SwankiVY2: I'm not really anal. I'm just not interested in dating, and would appreciate it if people didn't IM me assuming I was.

GatrDawn: oook sister w your sour ass attitude who would want to date u anyhow=)

SwankiVY2: Heh...well, not many people, but you only get my "sour ass attitude" if you treat me like a piece of meat, so no loss on either side.

GatrDawn: whatever u say

SwankiVY2: ::grin::

GatrDawn: yeah sure right

SwankiVY2: Hey, why does your profile say you're a girl if you say you're a guy, are you sharing?

GatrDawn: my friend lets me use her account thats y i have a pic so ladies dont think i am a lady

SwankiVY2: You could easily send a guy's pic around...I've had guys ask me for my pic before and claim it's "just to prove I'm really a girl."

SwankiVY2: I always ask what would stop me from sending out a girl's pic if I was a guy and just wanted to trick a guy.

GatrDawn: well in your world mayb but i dont think like that

GatrDawn: the cups half empty 4 u isnt it

SwankiVY2: Absolutely not.

SwankiVY2: I'm an optimist.

SwankiVY2: It's true, though, pictures prove nothing.

SwankiVY2: I'm sure you've heard stories of people sending pics of them before they gained eighty pounds, or guys sending girls' pics because it's hard to get cybersex if you're a gay guy, etc.

SwankiVY2: Lying online is easy, and so lots of people do it.

GatrDawn: well im not decietful like that so im sorry people have tried to fuck w u

SwankiVY2: I don't, I don't need to 'cause I'm not trying to prove anything.

SwankiVY2: I didn't think you were deceitful, though we are probably after completely different things.

GatrDawn: i dont need to lie thats my point

SwankiVY2: If I had been the kind of person who's interested in a guy because he's sexy, by all means, give me that info immediately...but I'm not that kind of person.

GatrDawn: what kind of person r u?

SwankiVY2: Hard to categorize me.

SwankiVY2: But actually...

GatrDawn: ooh boy here we go

SwankiVY2: I'd say that I'd rather be approached in such a way that I am interested because of common interests I have with a person, not their physical appearance.

SwankiVY2: That's what I'm interested in.

GatrDawn: there has to be an attraction 1st im sorry

SwankiVY2: That's the way it is for you. And I don't have to be attracted to someone to speak to them.

SwankiVY2: You have to be attracted to everyone you speak to?

[He just stopped speaking. Then IMed me a different day.]

GatrDawn: u in a better mood 2day

SwankiVY2: Um...I'm sorry, but how I react to people generally has little to do with my mood and a lot to do with how they treat me.

GatrDawn: oook

GatrDawn: enough already cant u just be cool

SwankiVY2: I'm not a bitch, I just act like one if someone expects things from me that I don't feel are appropriate.

SwankiVY2: We have different ideas of "cool."

SwankiVY2: Hmm...why'd you IM me today if you felt I was rude to you last time we spoke?

GatrDawn: not rude just a lil uptight

SwankiVY2: Lots of people who IM me say that about me.

SwankiVY2: they were always guys who wanted cybersex, though.

SwankiVY2: If I don't give it to them I'm "uptight."

SwankiVY2: did you put me on a buddy list to try me a different time, or did you just find me again in a search?

GatrDawn: just saw u on babe

SwankiVY2: Um...?

SwankiVY2: At the risk of seeming "uptight" again, why are you calling me babe?

GatrDawn: god damn nevermind

SwankiVY2: Well, I figured you must want something if you IMed me--guess I'm not what you were looking for?

GatrDawn: do u do anything for fun?

SwankiVY2: Doesn't everyone? :)

GatrDawn: u seem like u need a lil

SwankiVY2: Oh, please don't judge me.

SwankiVY2: You approached me in a way I didn't like, so I didn't respond well. It doesn't mean I'm just a sour bitch who yells at everyone and doesn't ever have fun.